It can be defined as what makes you feel most loved and cared for. What often tends to happen is that you love a person the same way as you would want them to love you.
However, the problem is this may not be how your other half wants you to appreciate their love. As a result we all need to learn how to speak the other person's love language.
The 5 Love Languages.
1. Words Of Affirmation
If this is your love language, you feel most cared for when your partner is open and expressive in telling you how wonderful they think you are, how much they appreciate you, etc.Basically, they find ways to remind you that their world is a better place because you are in it.
2. Acts Of Service
If your partner offers to watch the kids so you can go to the gym (or relieving you of some other task) gets your heart going, then this is your love language.
3. Affection
This love language is just as it sounds. A warm hug, a kiss, touch, and sexual intimacy make you feel most loved when this is your love language.
4. Quality Time
This love language is about being together, fully present and engaged in the activity at hand, no matter how trivial.
5. Gifts
Your partner taking the time to give you a gift can make you feel appreciated.
Dr. Gary Chapman is an expert on Love Languages. He wrote the book '5 Languages Of Love - The Secret To Love That Lasts' which not only helps you discover your 'love language' but also provides actionable steps you can take, in respect to each language.
Share this with your family & friends... help them discover their love language today!
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